Are you looking for someone to ‘make you happy’ ? Or for someone to ‘complete you’? Or are you there already and simply want some company!?
The simple truth is if you are hoping to find love, there is always someone out there for you. If you remain honest with yourself, its the easiest way to ensure you find that person.
The problem is the degree others play in making you happy, ‘complete’ or otherwise, will very much depend on where you reached on that particular road prior to meeting them.
It’s important to understand, the way in which we project ourselves to another people, like possible future partners, will be very much dependent on how we feel about ourselves.
When you are out there looking for someone, possibly hoping to find love through one of our dating sites, first impressions count. However, when you meet a man or women for the first time, the most important thing to remember is to be yourself! Especially if that date turns into a second and third and then develops into something deeper.
Unless you are some kind of serial dater, or a person that enjoys one relationship followed by another, being honest with and about yourself when looking for someone early on in a relationship, will give you a massive advantage in finding longevity and hopefully finding love.
Many dates fail, simply because people lack the confidence to be themselves from the start. They end up putting on another ‘skin’, or false presence that they have no hope of continuing with. This ruins the opportunity of the date developing into anything long term, if that’s what you are maybe hoping for.
Remember! If your date doesn’t like you for the person you are, it’s cool, at least you’ve been honest with yourself. So shake yourself down, re-group and move on. And if it worked out and looks as though its going well, you are clearly on your way forward and in control of that journey – so well done!
Now I’m not suggesting on a first date you shouldn’t be impressive and behave in an entertaining style, but don’t step out of order by making a possible job promotion you mention sound like you’re becoming the CEO of the company your work for! If your date follows up on your exaggerations later, you will only dig a deeper hole for yourself which you will then regret.
Following which, you must then undo all you’ve said. Of course this will create an immediately uncomfortable space between you and your date.
So remember to simply relax and be yourself when dating it will benefit you in so many ways!